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5 Home Security Tips for Your Senior Loved One

When someone we care about ages, it can be overwhelming. There are so many decisions that need to be made regarding health care, financial responsibilities, and independence, and this means some important matters – such as home security – can be overlooked. When it comes to making sure your senior loved one is safe, however, it helps to have an action plan that covers the basics. Here are some of the most effective ways to ensure that their residence is a secure and healthy environment for them to live out their best years.

  1. Ensure Outside Security

With so many scary news stories warning us of burglars and package pirates, it may not seem like anyone can be safe these days. The good news is that criminals tend to look for “soft” targets, and having a home that looks protected is more than half the battle of keeping bad guys away. Even if your loved one can’t afford the most up-to-date security system, any visible deterrent will help. Adequate lighting near all of the entrances, as well as sturdy and modern-looking locks on all doors and windows, may be all that is needed to tell crooks to “keep walking.”

You’ll also want to put yourself in the situation of your loved one and see what it’s like for them to greet guests. Do they have to open the door to see who is outside? Is it difficult to make out visitors from a safe distance? Will they need to choose between privacy and security? Ensure that their doors and windows allow for them to see what’s going on without putting them at risk. If a doorbell is installed, make sure it works and that it can be heard from all areas of the home.

  1. Foster Communication

If something does go wrong, does your loved one know who to call? If so, is there an easy way to get ahold of help 24/7? With so many medical alert systems on the market today (and at reasonable prices), there is no reason for them to ever be alone in an emergency.

In addition, their traditional phone should be portable, or older corded devices should be placed where they can get to them quickly in all levels of the home. Family members’ numbers can be placed into the speed dial setting for help with a button push. All devices should be checked regularly to ensure they function well and don’t need batteries or components replaced.

  1. Protect Against Smoke, Fire, and Poison

We are usually very good at making sure our own homes are protected, but when is the last time you asked about the fire alarm installed in your loved one’s residence? Annual smoke detector and carbon monoxide detector checks are essential for any home, and many local agencies will be happy to perform these at no charge. Ask about radon tests, which are sometimes given out for free from city offices and county extension agencies. A small kitchen fire extinguisher should be placed in the home, as well. (“Push-button” models are quick to activate for even those with even limited mobility or strength.)

While rare, food poisoning can be even more harmful to an older person, as they often have a weaker immune system. Regularly check for expired foods or recalled items, and keep a temperature monitor in the fridge and freezer to ensure they are keeping the temps required to combat bacteria and spoilage.

  1. Prevent Falls

Falls are currently the number one cause of fatal and non-fatal injuries in our oldest populations, with one in four people over 65 falling each year. According to the National Council on Aging, the fear of falling can make it hard for our older loved ones to live happy and fulfilling lives – often leading to depression and further physical decline. Fortunately, falling doesn’t have to be a normal part of aging, and many falls are completely preventable (with little cost and effort!)

Taking steps to prevent falls can be as simple as going through the home with your loved one and watching how they move. Do they avoid areas, tip-toe, scoot, or maneuver in odd ways? They may have already formed habits to avoid falling, instead of taking action to fix the problem. This is your time to ask them about the “danger areas” they already know about while committing to making them safer.

Some common fall hazards in a home include:

  • Stairways in both the home and outside
  • Loose carpeting or misplaced rugs
  • Electrical and extension cords
  • Bath and shower surfaces
  • Toilet that is too high, not seated properly, loose, or broken
  • Wet floors from leaky fixtures or humidity
  • Clutter on floors, stairs, and furniture

Fall hazards can change. Keep an eye on new developments in the home, and look into devices that can alleviate some of the stress of near-falls, such as safety railings, anti-slip mats, and shower chairs.

  1. Keep Finances Secure

Older loved ones are more vulnerable to financial schemes and scams, which often center around technology that they may not be familiar with or resemble legitimate communications from their bank, health insurer, or the IRS. Take time to learn about new scams regularly, and discuss the red flags for each. Foster open communication so that your loved ones feels safe telling about near scams or even ones that they have fallen victim of. Reinforce the following rules regarding sensitive personal info: 

  • Never give out your Social Security Number
  • Keep your Medicare card safe, including the new cards (which will be mailed out without SS numbers in the future)
  • Don’t share bank account or credit card information over the phone
  • Never assume you’ve won a prize or lottery that you don’t remember entering
  • Never pay a fee to accept an award, prize, inheritance, or settlement
  • Keep tax and financial records secure, in a locked and fire-proof safe, and away from visitors and hired help

Above all, stress that nothing is so urgent that it can’t wait for your loved one to take a message and consult a relative or professional for guidance. If someone insists action must be taken immediately on a financial matter, it is more than likely a scam.

It can take some time to make the home as safe as possible, and that’s OK. Big changes are made up of many, many small changes, and just doing a few things here and there will have positive effects for your loved one. If you have a family care plan, consider placing a to-to list of all of these items in the back, along with an action plan for who is responsible for each. With some help, the safest place to live can be the same long-time home that your loved one already knows and cherishes.

Taking it to the Grave

Taking it to the Grave

Do you ever feel a tingly sensation when you think someone may be lying to you? Well, your body might be trying to tell you something. At least one study found 3 in 5 people lie during a 10-minute conversation. Worse still, most people don’t just lie once – they lie two to three times over the same period.

If most people lie, whom can you really trust with your secrets?

We surveyed over 1,000 Americans about the secrets they are most and least likely to keep and whether it’s OK to lie in certain situations. We then took this information and examined it by gender, political affiliation, and education level. Continue reading to see which secrets Americans are willing to reveal – and which ones they’d rather take to the grave.

Familiar Admissions

Under the veil of anonymity, we asked Americans to share some of their deepest secrets. Of their responses, we identified the top 10 occurring words.

The most frequently used word to describe America’s most kept secrets? “Cheat.” For some people that may mean cheating on a diet or even on an important test – but for others, it may indicate infidelity. Some experts suggest that as many as 1 in 4 men cheat over the course of their lifetime, while more than 1 in 10 women do the same.

Other commonly used words to describe the most confidential truths of Americans included “lied,” “stole,” and “friend.” Whatever their confessions alluded to, research shows that when people lie, the brain can become desensitized to dishonesty, making lying feel more and more natural over time.  

Dishonest Tendencies

George Washington may be famously thought to have said he couldn’t tell a lie – but there aren’t too many people who can get away with a quote like that. Lying may simply be a part of human nature, which means, like it or not, we’ve all lied once or twice.

Our survey found more than 4 in 5 people felt it was OK to tell a lie under certain circumstances. Whether it’s lying about how old you are or how good your partner looks in a new outfit, sometimes it’s easier to blur the truth when we think it doesn’t hurt to lie or when we want to spare someone’s feelings.

While nearly 3 in 4 people believed white lies were sometimes appropriate, roughly 88 percent said it was never OK to lie under oath – and for a good reason. Lying under oath in a court of law is considered a criminal act.

Secrets From Someone

Men and women fell into different categories when it came to keeping a secret from someone. While men tend to withhold the whole truth more often (and when it’s in their best interest), women were found to keep quiet on the whole truth most often when it benefited other people.

When we asked them about secrets they’re keeping from just one person, nearly 40 percent of women and over 44 percent of men admitted to holding a certain truth close to the chest.

But just whom are most Americans lying to? More than 2 in 5 women and nearly half of men are keeping a secret from their significant other, while roughly 1 in 4 people are holding out on a parent. There are some key warning signs to look for if you think your partner may be lying, but repairing that trust is significantly more complicated.

Varying Degrees of Secrecy

It isn’t always easy to keep a secret. Trying to hold in the truth can be exhausting, and it may seem as if all you can think about is coming clean. Still, some of our deepest (and occasionally darkest) secrets are potentially better left untold. These are the secrets Americans would rather keep to themselves than share.

A majority of the secrets people wanted to take to the grave involved illegal activity. While fantasizing about some of these actions can occasionally be an indicator of emotional distress – putting them into action is an entirely different story. Among the most heinous secrets? Bestiality, incest, and murder.

Not all closely kept secrets directly involved respondents, though; some secrets involved other people they knew. On average, Americans ranked keeping the secret of a friend who had an abortion a 5.1 on a scale of 1 to 7. In fact, in some instances, people were more likely to keep the same secret for other people than for themselves. Friends or family members diagnosed with an STD were also ranked a five on the scale, compared to a 4.2 for participants diagnosed with an STD.

Gendered Secrets

Men and women didn’t always agree on the secrets most worth keeping.

There’s no question Americans with mental disorders face stigmas every day – but experts suggest men may be more sensitive to the misconceptions surrounding mental health. According to our poll, men were more likely to conceal that they take medication for a mental disorder when compared to women. Men were also more likely to hide the being diagnosed with depression, anxiety, or another mental disorder.

Women, on the other hand, were more likely than men to keep a secret about a friend having an abortion. They’d also stay tight-lipped if someone they knew was diagnosed with an STD. Research indicates that women are more likely to compromise the truth (or even their moral integrity) in specific scenarios when defending someone else.

While a survey conducted by the Pew Research Center found members of the LGBTQ community believed Americans were more accepting of homosexuality today, they still felt somewhat discriminated against by society and their communities. According to our poll, men were more likely than women to never to tell anyone they were homosexual or bisexual.

The Degree of Discretion

Our survey also found Americans with various levels of education had different opinions on the secrets they should and shouldn’t share. Research has found that keeping secrets can manifest as a physical burden in some cases, and even the thought of holding in the truth can cause emotional distress for some people. According to our survey, people without a four-year college degree were more comfortable sharing the truth of being convicted of a crime or using hard drugs compared to those with a bachelor’s degree or higher.

Americans with a bachelor’s degree or higher were also more likely to keep the secrets of the people around them. When asked about a friend who had an abortion or a sexual encounter with a friend’s sibling, participants without these degrees were less inclined to keep the secret compared to those with higher levels of completed education.

They’ll Never Tell

Whether it’s true or not – even the former director of the CIA thinks millennials struggle to keep secrets compared to older generations (at least when it comes to classified information). Our survey found varying degrees in which millennials, Gen Xers, and baby boomers spilled the beans.

When it came to infidelity, millennials were the least likely generation to keep it a secret – whether they knew a friend who was cheated on, had done the cheating, or they themselves committed adultery.

Secrets millennials believed they could keep better than anyone else? Hitting a parked car and causing major damage, or even accidentally killing someone.

Partisan Privacy

Democrats were more likely to keep a secret when the subject was someone else, whereas those who were Republicans more heavily indicated they’d never tell when the secret was about themselves.

One of the biggest discrepancies between Democrats and Republicans was about sexual orientation. While Democrats ranked the likelihood of not divulging being homosexual or bisexual a 2.3 on our scale, Republicans ranked it a full point higher, on average. Republicans also were more likely to hide if their sexual desires were unusual, if they were diagnosed with an STD, or if they used marijuana.

When asked about an acquaintance diagnosed with an STD or having an abortion, Democrats were less likely to share that secret with other people compared to Republicans.

Easy Options

Regardless of the circumstances or intentions, everyone lies – some people even lie a lot. Studies have shown that the more you distort the truth, the harder it can become to break the habit of telling little white lies regularly. Our survey found most Americans even believed it was OK to lie sometimes, and many admitted to hiding the truth from their significant other.

While we may not be able to protect you from the secrets people keep, we do know a thing or two about home security. At GetSafe, it should be easy to feel safe in your own home. By combining our 24/7 monitoring services with the convenience of the devices you use regularly, we’ve merged the best of both worlds. With flexible pricing and an easy-to-use app, you won’t have to think twice about protecting what matters most to you. Visit us online at to learn more.


We surveyed over 1,000 Americans about the hypothetical secrets they would be most and least likely to keep to themselves.

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